20 signs that you are suceeding in life; Even if u dnt feel u are
We all feel like failures from time to
time. While this is a normal feeling, you
have to find a way to see yourself and
your life from a different perspective.
Sometimes we ignore the “little things.”
Just because you are not a millionaire,
don’t live in a mansion, and you don’t
drive a fancy car, that doesn’t mean
you’re a failure. In fact, it’s quite the
contrary.
Here are 20 signs that you are
succeeding in life:
1. Your relationships are less dramatic
than they used to be.
Drama is not maturity. As we age, we
should develop maturity. So maybe your
relationships were drama-filled in your
past, but if you have moved beyond that,
then you are successful.
2. You are not afraid to ask for help
and support any more.
Asking for help does not equal weakness.
In fact, it is a strength. No person has
ever succeeded in isolation. It takes
teamwork to accomplish goals. Asking or
help is a sign that you have grown as a
person.
3. You have raised your standards.
You don’t tolerate bad behavior any more
– from other people, or even yourself.
You hold people accountable for their
actions. You don’t spend time with the
“energy vampires” in your life anymore.
4. You let go of things that don’t
make you feel good.
No, this is not narcissistic even though it
might seem like it. Self-love is success.
Love yourself enough to say ‘no’ to
anything that doesn’t make you happy,
doesn’t serve your purpose, or drags you
down.
5. You have moments where you
appreciate who you see in the mirror.
Ideally, you should appreciate who you
see in the mirror at every moment. But
even if that doesn’t happen, if you do it
more than you used to, then that is
success. Love yourself. You are awesome.
6. You have learned that setbacks and
failure are part of self-growth.
Not everyone can have success 100% of
the time. That’s just not realistic. Life is
about victories and losses. So look at
your setbacks as stepping stones to
something better. In reality, there really
is no such thing as as setback. It’s all just
part of a wondrous journey.
7. You have a support system that
includes people who would do
anything for you.
If you have figured out the people who
“have your back” and recognized the
ones who only pretend that they do, then
you have succeeded. This is a painful
realization, but once you learn to see the
signs of betrayal, you can stay away from
those people.
8. You don’t complain much.
Because you know there really is nothing
to complain about. Unless you really have
gone through some horrific life
experience and had unimaginable losses,
most of what we all experience on a day-
to-day basis is just mundane. And
successful people know that. And they
live in a space of gratitude.
9. You can celebrate others’
successes.
Just because other people succeed, that
doesn’t make you a failure. Applaud the
people who rise to the top. The more
positive energy you give to other people’s
victories, the more you will create your
own.
10. You have passions that you
pursue.
You are not stagnant. You know you
have something wonderful to contribute
to the world. You have unique talents
and gifts. Not only do you know that, you
pursue it.
11. You have things to look forward
to.
If you don’t have exciting things going
on in your life that you are eagerly
anticipating, then you are slowly dying
inside. Successful people create goals that
they are passionate about pursuing. They
let this excitement drive their life.
12. You have goals that have come
true.
Even though “failures” are a part of life,
you have stuck to your goals and dreams
long enough to make them come to
fruition. You have some tastes of victory.
It fuels you.
13. You have empathy for others.
A person without empathy is dead inside.
Empathy equals spreading love and
positive energy into the world. Successful
people know this. They love others as if
they are family.
14. You love deeply and open yourself
up to be loved by others.
Love is risky, and sometimes scary for
people. It’s the one thing we all strive
for, but it’s also intimately tied to the
one thing we fear the most – rejection. If
you open your heart enough to love and
be loved, then you are successful.
15. You refuse to be be a victim.
You know that life doesn’t always
happen to you. Many times, you are a co-
creator of your life experiences.
Successful people know this and refuse
to be kept down by life experiences. The
rise up and conquer anyway.
16. You don’t care what other people
think.
You know you can’t please everyone. You
know that the standards with which
society judges people is many times
unrealistic. So you just keep true to
yourself and love the person you are.
17. You always look on the bright
side.
Life can be full of disappointments – if
you choose to see them that way.
Otherwise, they are learning
opportunities. No negative experience is
ever wasted as long as you learn from it.
18. You accept what you can’t
change.
Let’s face it – there many things you
can’t change in life. All you can change
is how you view what happens. If you
can change your negative perspective on
situations to a positive one, then you are
successful.
19. You change what you can.
And let’s face it again – there are many
things you can change in life. Successful
people don’t sit around accepting the
negatives that are changeable. They get
out there and do something about it!!
20. You are happy.
To me, this is the ultimate definition of
success. It doesn’t matter what the
balance is in your bank account, how big
your house is, or how many fancy
vacations you take. If you are happy,
then you are succeeding in life.
Even if you don’t see yourself in many of
these 20 things, don’t fret. It’s okay. Be
happy that you see yourself in just a few.
In time, the rest will come. You just need
to keep moving onward and upward.
time. While this is a normal feeling, you
have to find a way to see yourself and
your life from a different perspective.
Sometimes we ignore the “little things.”
Just because you are not a millionaire,
don’t live in a mansion, and you don’t
drive a fancy car, that doesn’t mean
you’re a failure. In fact, it’s quite the
contrary.
Here are 20 signs that you are
succeeding in life:
1. Your relationships are less dramatic
than they used to be.
Drama is not maturity. As we age, we
should develop maturity. So maybe your
relationships were drama-filled in your
past, but if you have moved beyond that,
then you are successful.
2. You are not afraid to ask for help
and support any more.
Asking for help does not equal weakness.
In fact, it is a strength. No person has
ever succeeded in isolation. It takes
teamwork to accomplish goals. Asking or
help is a sign that you have grown as a
person.
3. You have raised your standards.
You don’t tolerate bad behavior any more
– from other people, or even yourself.
You hold people accountable for their
actions. You don’t spend time with the
“energy vampires” in your life anymore.
4. You let go of things that don’t
make you feel good.
No, this is not narcissistic even though it
might seem like it. Self-love is success.
Love yourself enough to say ‘no’ to
anything that doesn’t make you happy,
doesn’t serve your purpose, or drags you
down.
5. You have moments where you
appreciate who you see in the mirror.
Ideally, you should appreciate who you
see in the mirror at every moment. But
even if that doesn’t happen, if you do it
more than you used to, then that is
success. Love yourself. You are awesome.
6. You have learned that setbacks and
failure are part of self-growth.
Not everyone can have success 100% of
the time. That’s just not realistic. Life is
about victories and losses. So look at
your setbacks as stepping stones to
something better. In reality, there really
is no such thing as as setback. It’s all just
part of a wondrous journey.
7. You have a support system that
includes people who would do
anything for you.
If you have figured out the people who
“have your back” and recognized the
ones who only pretend that they do, then
you have succeeded. This is a painful
realization, but once you learn to see the
signs of betrayal, you can stay away from
those people.
8. You don’t complain much.
Because you know there really is nothing
to complain about. Unless you really have
gone through some horrific life
experience and had unimaginable losses,
most of what we all experience on a day-
to-day basis is just mundane. And
successful people know that. And they
live in a space of gratitude.
9. You can celebrate others’
successes.
Just because other people succeed, that
doesn’t make you a failure. Applaud the
people who rise to the top. The more
positive energy you give to other people’s
victories, the more you will create your
own.
10. You have passions that you
pursue.
You are not stagnant. You know you
have something wonderful to contribute
to the world. You have unique talents
and gifts. Not only do you know that, you
pursue it.
11. You have things to look forward
to.
If you don’t have exciting things going
on in your life that you are eagerly
anticipating, then you are slowly dying
inside. Successful people create goals that
they are passionate about pursuing. They
let this excitement drive their life.
12. You have goals that have come
true.
Even though “failures” are a part of life,
you have stuck to your goals and dreams
long enough to make them come to
fruition. You have some tastes of victory.
It fuels you.
13. You have empathy for others.
A person without empathy is dead inside.
Empathy equals spreading love and
positive energy into the world. Successful
people know this. They love others as if
they are family.
14. You love deeply and open yourself
up to be loved by others.
Love is risky, and sometimes scary for
people. It’s the one thing we all strive
for, but it’s also intimately tied to the
one thing we fear the most – rejection. If
you open your heart enough to love and
be loved, then you are successful.
15. You refuse to be be a victim.
You know that life doesn’t always
happen to you. Many times, you are a co-
creator of your life experiences.
Successful people know this and refuse
to be kept down by life experiences. The
rise up and conquer anyway.
16. You don’t care what other people
think.
You know you can’t please everyone. You
know that the standards with which
society judges people is many times
unrealistic. So you just keep true to
yourself and love the person you are.
17. You always look on the bright
side.
Life can be full of disappointments – if
you choose to see them that way.
Otherwise, they are learning
opportunities. No negative experience is
ever wasted as long as you learn from it.
18. You accept what you can’t
change.
Let’s face it – there many things you
can’t change in life. All you can change
is how you view what happens. If you
can change your negative perspective on
situations to a positive one, then you are
successful.
19. You change what you can.
And let’s face it again – there are many
things you can change in life. Successful
people don’t sit around accepting the
negatives that are changeable. They get
out there and do something about it!!
20. You are happy.
To me, this is the ultimate definition of
success. It doesn’t matter what the
balance is in your bank account, how big
your house is, or how many fancy
vacations you take. If you are happy,
then you are succeeding in life.
Even if you don’t see yourself in many of
these 20 things, don’t fret. It’s okay. Be
happy that you see yourself in just a few.
In time, the rest will come. You just need
to keep moving onward and upward.
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