A LETTER TO SINGLE GUYZ (must read)
continue in that relationship. This letter is strictly
for men, not boys or players.
First concerning how you treat ladies. I know quite
alright that ladies are emotional only few are not.
Please, don’t take advantage of that and inflict
emotional pain on them. If you know she’s not going
to be your wife, there’s no point promising her
heaven and earth just to get her in bed. If you
think you’re smart, your smartness cannot prevent
the nemesis or daring consequences that would one
day catch up with you. It’s better you avoid the
consequences of an action because of its few minutes
pleasure than to face its agony and regrets in the
near future.
What are you doing about your life and future? I
know it’s trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all
youthful exuberance. See, life doesn’t go on a
stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be
recovered. If at age 30 or close to it, you haven’t
define your life or you’re still depending on friends,
family or relatives, you need to work on yourself.
Where do you put God in your life? Consider God
in the time of your youth before it’s too late. Many
of you who turned back on God will someday run
back to Him for help. If you cannot dance to the
devil’s music, it’s better you start learning God’s
steps. Hear this guys, love isn’t s*x! Don’t tell a
lady to prove her love to you because you want to
have a ‘taste’ of her. I know everyone is going
haywire with premarital s*x but you can choose to
abstain. Apart from it being sin against God, it will
make you vulnerable to STDs and some problems
‘rubber’ cannot prevent. It doesn’t matter if she
calls you names if you choose to abstain, or you
become an object of mockery amongst your friends,
run for your dear life.
Think about your future and life hereafter. Don’t
give your strength to strange women, preserve it for
your wife. Have you discovered your purpose in life?
That very reason why God has created you?
Jumping from one lady to another without discovering
your purpose on earth will make you miserable and
waste away in life. Know your purpose in life and be
on track to attain it’s fulfillment before you think of
going into a relationship. It’s not difficult, it would
only prevent you from distraction.
Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they
contributing positively to your life or they are
emptying you of virtues and opportunities? It’s not
a must you hang out with friends if you do not
benefit from them. You can stand alone with God
and make lasting impact than to keep dozens of
friends with no footprints in the sand of time.
Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual, mental
and emotional life. Only a crazy man beats a woman
even if she pushed you to the wall. There is a
button of patience to press to control your anger.
Work on your mental development. Read good books
to acquire knowledge and skill. Get intimate with
God so that your wife wouldn’t become a victim of
false prophets or you become a spiritual babe in
handling matters of life at the homefront. My guy,
you’re going to be a father someday. Don’t do the
things you wouldn’t be proud of your son to emulate
or would want anyone to do to your daughter. If you
wouldn’t want to leave a bad legacy for your unborn
children, don’t tread the path now.
I’d have love to tell you more but I believe you
know the importance of life and time and I’m
constrained due to space. Don’t waste away chasing
every Tom, d**k and Harry for s*x. Conserve your
energies and channel it into a more productive cause
in life. I hope the few wise ones would treasure this
letter, share it or send it to a friend. Thank you for
your anticipated response as you make amends in
areas where necessary.g
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